The One Habit That Will Make You Poor Forever

by birtanpublished on September 29, 2020

What is the one habit that will make you poor forever now before I teach you that one habit let me ask you a question why do you want more money comment below why do you want more money now for most people they would say oh because I want to you know

Buy a new house I want to buy a new car I want to buy a new watch I want to be able to buy the new dress the new pair of shoes I want to pay off my debt I want to be able to do whatever I want I want freedom I want to take that

Vacation I want to help my family I want to impact people so comment below why do you want more money I believe every one of us has a money story now what is a money story I believe it is a story that is a turning point in your

Life when you first recognize the importance of money and why we need money now for some it may be when you were a little kid the first time you go to your parents you know you say I want that candy I know I want that toy I want

That little toy car I want that doll I want whatever it is you go to your parents and they say to you no you know what you think me money grows on trees we don't have money we can't afford it now that could be your money story or

Your story could be that maybe when you were going through high school you didn't have a lot of money and you were wearing the same pair of pants and seem to have shoes every day and your friends they laugh at you right oh man why you

You know you know wash your clothes you wear the same thing again again and you register that okay darn it I need to look a little different or they have the new self I mean you don't have the new cell phone they have the latest computer

On you you don't have the latest computer you're like don''t I want that thing I need to make some money right maybe that's your first encounter with money or maybe it is a time that is when your family needed help that they need

Financial help maybe they need medical help but you're not it would provide and you remember that my money story was when I first was going through high school and one time when I came home I saw my mom in the

Bedroom I was in the living room and I each dropped and she was having a conversation with somebody and I could hear her crying on the phone so I knock on a door and I said mom is everything okay and she opened the door and she

Said no everything's fine just talking to your father and later on she told me that my dad actually went bankrupt in Hong Kong that his business partner basically took all his money and disappeared and that left him with

Almost over a million dollars in debt in u.s. dollars so he had to file for bankruptcy and he could no longer support us financially and he could no longer send his allowance we're kind of on our own

And my mom has never worked a day in her life she's just a housewife she sacrificed and spent all that effort just taking care of me and raising me as a as a child and in a country where we don't speak English and my mom still

Can't speak English in a scenario like that I learned about the importance of money I learned that not having money equals pain not having money equals lack of security not having money equals being a disappointment for your family

That's kind of my first encounter with money now what has this to do with the one habit that will make you poor so I want you to think back and comment below think back your money incident your money story when was the first time that

You got it that you're like oh I need money I need money to survive I need money to do whatever I need money to solve this problem I need money to in order to do this X or Y thing and suddenly finally I'm having a little bit

Of money of having limited success I wanted to show off I want to show people that hey you know what I am smart that I am somebody I'm not the invisible kid in high school look at me look at how good I am like I'm I'm

Better than you it was all ego-driven but it was all pride driven that was getting a new car every year I was buying all kinds stuff that I don't need if you really think about why do you want money

And you might want all these things but my guess is when you go deeper you actually go deeper I believe we're actually going after a certain feeling a certain feeling that I want a certificate that you want now you

May be thinking oh dear I don't care about the materialistic things no you're still going after something maybe you want the freedom you want to travel you want to be able to work from home you want to be able to to impact other

People you want to be able to help the charity there you want support there's something that you're after you're just going after it in a different way does that make sense we after certain emotions that money

Could provide for us so what happens is then we want to buy those things would it buy things that gives us those emotions to make us feel good and that's how most people end up spending money we don't have buying things that we don't

Need to impress the people that we don't even freaking like and that's what I did for a pure of time a long period of time I thought that's what it is you have money you spent it right you buy things you buy two things you buy the next

Thing and you think that next thing would give you that feeling that emotion that you are craving for not there and you think no maybe that next thing would be would be it and it's still not it right and I was chasing these emotions

There okay if I do this and it then I will finally get it what I didn't recognize is that's actually not how it works the habit is if you always want to buy things to make yourself feel better to be validated to prove other people

Wrong you'll always be poor instead if you feel good about yourself you have a healthy self-image you don't care about these things you buy these things because not because you want to prove somebody wrong because you want to show

Off you want to do whatever you buy them simply because you like them you buy them because you enjoy them it gives you comfort and money is simply a tool it gives you comfort it gives you peace of mind right it gives you time

Yes money allows you by time allows you to have more choices in life you could say no to things because you don't really need the money so think about in your own life how much money you spend be very honest you spend

To impress others and instead of spending that money to impress what if you spend that money to invest invest in yourself invest in your own self education invest in things that would enrich your life

Emotionally spiritually invest in experiences that you will always remember invest in that so spend money to invest don't spend money to impress

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